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Currently In: Los Angeles
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How are you approaching COVID-19 safety?I’m vaccinated with a booster shot. I limit my exposure to large crowds as much as possible, wear a mask in public, and get tested regularly. For an additional $100 consideration, I will be happy to take a rapid test before our date.
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Can you tell me more about the screening process?Screening keeps us both safe. Like you, I live a private life and work diligently to keep this separate from my personal endeavors. Your screening information is sent to an encrypted inbox and is deleted upon verification. I will only contact you via email. To allow time for screening, please make your date requests at least 3 days in advance.
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How do you approach discretion?Whether you practice anonymity for personal safety, family or employer privacy, or simply for the thrill of being someone else for a moment, I can assure your discretion will be respected. If we meet in public, you will appreciate my adaptability and subtlety, and we will blend in seamlessly with ease. Discretion protects us both, and for this reason I cannot accommodate requests for face-identifying photos or to speak over phone/video prior to meeting.
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What are you attracted to in a lover?I go weak in the knees for suitors who are courteous, honest, refined, respectful, open, perhaps a little shy, and know when to loosen their ties a bit. I love folks who light up when learning new things, and who don’t shy away from a new thrill.
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I’m new to this and a little nervous; how should I prepare?It brings me joy to meet newcomers and I delight in making you feel comfortable. The best preparation is for you to let me know how you’re feeling before we meet! I do not judge a new suitor’s level of experience and in fact enjoy providing a level of ease to those who are new to this lifestyle .It helps if you know what it is you’re looking for in our time together, and then share that with me at the beginning of our date, so that I may take care of the rest for you. It may ease your tension to say a little about yourself when screening.
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How can I make a great impression?Before meeting, clarity and chivalry in our digital love letters goes a long way. I am most impressed by suitors who are complimentary, clear, and show a bit of personality. Start with sharing what you’re passionate about, and I’ll be yours. Planning ahead shows consideration for my schedule and work/life balance; please make your date requests at least 3 days in advance. On our date, being honest up front (about your intention, comfort level, requests, etc.) will make an excellent first impression. Showing up clean and presentable, and with a positive attitude, will catch and keep my attention right away.
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Can we speak before meeting?As noted above when discussing discretion, this adds quite a bit of risk to my endeavors. For this reason, we will communicate exclusively via email.
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What does the consideration consist of and how may I provide it?Consideration is for my time and companionship only. Upon our greeting, please quietly place the consideration in plain view, in a book or unsealed and unmarked card or envelope. If we are meeting in public, the envelope should be offered inside a book or gift bag. It is a promising display of chivalry for you to provide it right away and without drawing improper attention, especially if we are in public. At this time, considerations are accepted in cash only. Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear when I am set up to receive cryptocurrency, deposits, and electronic payments.
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How do you dress for dates?Especially when meeting in public, I coyly toe the line between boutique casual and cocktail formal. I dress for the occasion, and will no doubt turn heads without garnering unwanted attention. If you have specific requests for my outfit, they can be made with at least 3 days’ notice and alongside a gift card.
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Where do you host?I have a lovely apartment conveniently located in Lower Manhattan. If you prefer to meet in a hotel or at your home, please be sure to mention so in your initial email. This may incur additional consideration.
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May I make specific requests?Requests such as outfits and date ideas can make our precious time together even more meaningful; these are enthusiastically welcome and can be made via email prior to our rendezvous. A request made with a gift card or purchase off of my wishlist will greater the chances that I am able to accommodate. Please give 3 days notice for me to accommodate your desires. Requests of another nature, such as specific or explicit sexual acts, will be ignored. I do not discuss these things over correspondence, and repeated incidents will result in the cancellation of our date.
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We're having an amazing time on our date, and I'm hoping it can last a little longer. Is this an option?"Ah, you’re like me — you love to get lost in the moment, love to indulge here and now, in what you simply can’t get enough of. I know the feeling. If I am available, I can happily extend our date once it’s begun for an additional $800 per hour to be paid in full before the extension begins.
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Do you enjoy women and couples?The more the merrier! I have exquisite friends who would love to double our fun, after discussing together and upon your verification. I also love meeting couples meeting couples, for an additional $500 and minimum of 2 hours. Please send screening information for both you and your partner. My suitors are not exclusively cis men. I myself am bisexual and have a special place in my heart for women and the queer community, and I cultivate a welcoming space for trans and gender non-conforming suitors.
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Can you accommodate last minute bookings?I am often fully booked either personally or professionally, and it can be difficult to make changes to my schedule. Additionally, a lot of preparation goes into our date and I want to look and feel my best for our time together. Typically I book dates 48+ hours in advance. As a courtesy for my time, dates requested less than 48 hours in advance may incur a $300 consideration for last-minute bookings.
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How can I show my affection?My heart skips a beat for expressions of affection that are meaningful to us both. My wishlist (link to giftful) can point you in the right direction based on your love language. If you value acts of service, donations in my name towards my most closely-held human rights endeavors will go a long way. On giftful you will also find tickets to events where we can spend quality time together, or books that express your words of affirmation, and my wishlist will of course steer you well if gift-giving is your love language.
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Can I write a review of you?As outlined above, discretion is one of my top priorities, and reviews often compromise that endeavor. I appreciate that you have praise to offer and I flutter when hearing about your experience of our time together. This is best shared in the form of a digital love letter to my email when proposing our next date, or in a note alongside a giftcard.
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May I use you as a reference?I am flattered that our time together was special enough that you trust me to share about your character with another companion. I am happy to provide two references per date we’ve had; this helps me to stay current on what I share with other companions. Requests for additional references can be accommodated after we are able to have another date together. Additionally, the kindest reference requests are accompanied by a gift card; this is standard in our community to relay your respect for, and participation in, the safety of your companions. It is also a generous thank-you for our help in acquainting you with a new companion.
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When will you be in my city?I visit other cities several times a year, which you can hear about before I announce online, by subscribing to my newsletter. I love “fly me to you” dates for an exclusive extended rendezvous at your home base (or anywhere in the world!) where you’ll have my undivided attention for the duration of my stay.
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Why haven’t I heard back from you?I do my best to reply to requests within 24 hours. If you are awaiting a reply to an initial request, check to make sure you included everything indicated in the screening information and send a follow-up with any of the information you may have missed the first time.
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